Its shocking how many INFJ and INFP writers report the precise very same issues with writing. Every time I handle a new client, I can forecast with nearly 100% precision what theyre going to inform me theyre having a hard time with, and just how much pain theyre going through due to the fact that of it. These are the leading 3 statements I hear from INFJ and INFP writers:
What the INFJ or INFP author doesnt understand however, is that their problem has nothing to do with time management or lack of willpower. The factor procrastination and perfectionism are so disabling and, at times, all-consuming for the INFJ or INFP author is due to the fact that they are deeply-rooted psychological issues embedded in the mind.
I feel like an imposter, and like my writing will never ever suffice.
At this moment, many INFJ and INFP authors generally rely on the web for help. They look for posts on conquering procrastination and perfectionism, and they generally find a great deal of various “tricks and suggestions” on time management, enhancing your self-control, believing positive, and setting goals. None of this works either. In truth, after the initial hope that things might lastly change diminishes, the writer tends to feel worse about everything. Because now they seem like theyre not just a failure as a writer, but they obviously suck at all these other things too. The inner critic begins even more difficult, chewing out them that theyre lazy, weak, foolish, and a scams. The inner critic smugly assures them that they will NEVER be an author.
Due to the fact that the procrastination/perfectionism concern is so deeply ingrained, the cause of it is a psychological blind area. We can not see it within ourselves, or by ourselves, up until another person points it out. This is why its necessary for INFJ and INFP authors to get outside help to handle procrastination and perfectionism. The assistance of a therapist, instructor, and/or neighborhood is absolutely vital.
The authors who make these declarations are intelligent, self-aware people, and they understand what the issue is: procrastination and perfectionism. They understand that they have a routine of postponing starting the book theyve been dreaming about for so long. They are totally mindful that they have something of value to offer to the world. This understanding and awareness does not get them anywhere. They still feel like an imposter, like they couldnt perhaps be a “genuine author.” The fear keeps them frozen and weakens any forward momentum.
Im overwhelmed with concepts and unfinished jobs.
Im terrified to begin composing.
Im teaching a 4-week live class this August called YOU Are a Writer: Getting Past the Fear and Finally Moving Forward, and were going to be going deep into these particular problems for INFJ and INFP authors. Ive created a 3-part video series to show a little bit of what Ill be teaching in the class. The first video is called, “Imposter Perfectionism, syndrome, and infj/infp Writers,” and you can discover it here:
Ill be releasing the second video in the series, everything about how the inner critic controls and messes up the creative procedure of the INFJ and INFP writer, in just a number of days. I suggest you sign up for my newsletter HERE to guarantee you get the next video in the series and updates on the class if this speaks to you. And if you have any questions about the class itself, please do not hesitate to call me HERE.
Lauren Sapala is the author of The INFJ Writer, The INFJ Revolution, and the creator of Intuitive Writing, a six-step online video course for INFJ and INFP authors who battle with composing. She is also currently offering a complimentary copy of her book on imaginative marketing for INFJ and INFP authors to anybody who signs up for her newsletter. REGISTER HERE to get your free copy of Firefly Magic: Heart Powered Marketing for Highly Sensitive Writers.
Im truly excited to teach this class. I believe were going to have a great deal of fun, and were going to actually start the procedure of healing for many people. If this is resonating with you, I do hope you join us!
Its stunning how lots of INFJ and INFP authors report the precise very same issues with composing. What the INFJ or INFP writer does not know however, is that their problem has absolutely nothing to do with time management or lack of determination. The factor procrastination and perfectionism are so incapacitating and, at times, intense for the INFJ or INFP author is since they are deeply-rooted emotional issues embedded in the psyche. Im teaching a 4-week live class this August called YOU Are a Writer: Getting Past the Fear and Finally Moving Forward, and were going to be going deep into these particular concerns for INFJ and INFP authors. Lauren Sapala is the author of The INFJ Writer, The INFJ Revolution, and the developer of Intuitive Writing, a six-step online video course for INFJ and INFP authors who have a hard time with writing.